STFU, Rape Culture!
A word of warning: This blog discusses the various ways in which our culture excuses, normalizes, and sometimes condones rape, sexual assault, and other potentially graphic topics. Please be aware that posts may be upsetting or triggering.
Anon asked:
In November, my boyfriend at the time and I were fooling around. I was coming off birth control and there were quite a few things going wrong with my body. He went inside me for five minutes, I told him to stop, and he did. This pattern continued for a bit. The last time, he went until he was finished. He rolled off me, and said, “Baby, you feel really hot. Are you sick?” Pause while I cursed. Then, “It was a dick move to tell you that after I came.” Was this sex I didn’t enjoy, or was it rape?
It seems like you were repeatedly telling him to stop, and he would pause, but then continue. That is definitely rape.
